My life : One Step at a time

We all have things that we don’t use but we have had them with us forever, maybe we will never ever end up using them again but as soon as someone else wants  it all of a sudden that thing becomes useful to us, all of a sudden we try to behave like our whole world rotate around it. We all have a lot of problems in our life. We all end up chanting “ LIFE SUCKS ” mantra. Try asking the person who is in his/her death bed how he feels, he will tell you the beauty of life how he would want to live all over again. I agree today you have a problem but it won’t always be so, change is a part of life so live it love it. Aaj hai “ Kal Ho Na Ho” Every day our mother's cooks for us but the day when we are out and we can’t find anything good to eat is the only time that you feel that may be yah our moms are the greatest cook in the world and its time we start giving them credit for it but why wait till then there is no harm in appreciating people that try hard every day just to ma...

We all hear about parents killing their child if she is a girl, aborting the baby after knowing their sex. Sadly day-by-day the number of abortions has increased. Having been myself  brought up by parents who are so in love with me even after me being a girl child makes  it hard  for me to understand how some parents can kill their own baby, killing someone who hasn't even seen the face of the world. They sure have to be heartless for doing something like this.  We all live in a globalized world. People have grown in every walk of life but still it’s not just uneducated parents but people who are well to do in their life takes such steps. I don’t understand how does  it matters to someone that there to be baby is a girl or a boy who ever it is it’s a gift of God, something that is the part of them. People say if “we have a boy he will take the family name forward and help them in their old age” such people really need  get there fac...

     Starts liking the sports she never liked:  Now not every girl is a sports fan and if a girl starts watching your favorite sport ( That is huge) then for sure she feels for you.     Wears your favorite color :   If a girl ends up asking you favorite color and often wears it, she is surly trying to impress you   As soon as she see’s you coming she starts putting her hair in place:  seeing you from a distance if the girl starts giving herself last minute touch up she is sure into you ;)     Is quite in front of your friends:  If a girls very talkative in front of you but when your around your friends she rarely talks means she  doesn't  want to give a wrong impression to your friends and wants to be in their good books. Teases you with every other girl:  the minute she sees you talking to another girl if she starts teasing you means ...

The weirdest feeling has to be when you are in a roomful of people and you still feel lonely. Happens to me all the time but from past few days the feeling is just getting stronger. Not that I don't know the people around me, I know them way to well that they don't interest me any more. Its said the more you see the better you understand but when you are surrounded by self centered brats who want you to only do is praise them, life gets hard then. Everybody around us wants us to behave in a particular manner, to act as they please, weird thing is rarely anyone wants you to be yourself, people say you are  a coward you can't even stand for yourself and when you finally learn  to stand for yourself the same set of people have a problem. All of a sudden they will all be like you are rude, you are self centered. Phew crazy world- a place where people can't even act as they please. But always remember life is way to short to live on other people's terms, set your o...

Today I saw you and I skipped a beat,  you made my life a living treat . You made me fall in love with you all over again, you made me realize that life is not a game. It's you who taught me how to LOVE, it's you who taught me how to live. People say what's between us is wrong but I know that time will make our story strong.  PS I LOVE YOU

We all end up making a lot of decisions in our lives; few of them go terribly wrong. For all those things that haven’t worked out and left us shattered doesn't mean that it is the end of the world. We all make mistakes, sometimes we choice the wrong path, sometimes we choice the wrong people but that doesn't mean you’re a failure or you did something wrong it just means that thing wasn't supposed to be in your life. Looking back in life I have trusted a lot of people who have left be hanging, people who couldn't stand by me when I really needed them. Such things have left me thinking that it’s me who does not have ability to judge people , I don’t know what is right and what is wrong. After all such irrelevant thoughts when I actually get my act together I realize that during this course of time I have also made a lot of right decisions, I have happened to choice the best people in the world to be a part of my life and even though I ...

Passion the word itself  has so much fire ,  a sense of power and enthusiasm in it . In our daily routine there are so many times that we lie back and say “dude I m bored” frankly speaking I do it like all the time :P  and seeing this I realize the reason for this is the lack of passion in us. Passion to do something new,  to learn something,  to be a part of something that makes us as well as others happy. These days every one wants a big house, a huge bank balance and perfect family and why not there is nothing wrong in wanting such things definitely not but why do we want all this at the cost of killing our dreams, why don’t we do things that we are passionate about. Life is too small so why live on someone else’s terms, make your own terms and if you think what you are passionate about something but it cannot be a career choice for you it’s okay I   am sure you can still remove time from your so called “busy schedule” for things that you reall...