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Men are just being Men

Male bashing has always been fun (at least for me ) but at times I feel it is not their  fault in some cases  men are just being men.

Few things the lovely Ladies need to know about Men:

  • It is hard for them to communicate their feelings : When it comes to showing love trust me a dog can do a better job at it (no offence) but that is how it is, guys can't go all being like Raj from DDLJ when it comes to telling you they Love you, that doesn't mean they love you less its just how it works. 

  • They hate shopping  : If you want to spend time with your guy go for a movie, go out to eat, go out and do anything but not shopping. The only reason your boyfriend lets you have girl friends is cause whenever you need to go shopping you call you girl friends and not him, they are just not good with colors you see.

  • Gossiping is so not their cup of tea : Guys don't like to gossip not at least with their girlfriend. They are never interested in who is dating who unless and until its you who is double dating someone else :P there is a reason shows are called gossip girl and not gossip boys.

  • They don't need fashion tips: ( I know its a bummer but that is how it is ) Guys have a different approach to fashion for them its not about the brands or the designer for them its just about being comfortable. So avoid as much as possible , giving them all your amazing fashion tips is not a good idea

  • Boys night out means a night only for boys : When you boyfriend tells you he is off for a boys night you cannot expect him to be texting and calling , that is not how it works. Give them space let them enjoy, no one is stopping you go for a girls night yourself. 

  • They don't care if your gaining weight or not : They love you for what you are, it doesn't matter if you gain a few pounds here and there  ( just a few :P ) If they end up calling you fat its cause they are just trying to have fun, it  doesn't mean that it is the end of the world ( PS : calling girls fat is inviting trouble so  guys avoid ) 
Life is not about the small materialistic things, so it doesn't matter what you got as a gift on your anniversary, it is about the Love you share. 
XOXOXO 

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