My life : One Step at a time

Eat Ice Cream :   What better way to celebrate life then a huge tub of  chocolate chip ice cream :)   Cook : I would cook food for all the people that i don't like so one way or the other they will Die. :P Text   : I would text all my friends to tell them i am still alive and i am just gonna make there life hell  (after all what are friends for :P ) Propose : Tell all the guys  i like that i love them :P Hug : I will hug all the people that i meet just to let them know that i am glad they are alive. Laugh out loud : I would read all the theories which said the world is gonna end and laugh out loud Start doing projects : Will start doing all the projects that i didn't plan to do just cause i thought the world might end why take trouble :P Go Shopping : There is always time for shopping. I am so gonna need I am still alive clothes ( don't need a reason to shop ) Go Jiving : Will   Dance till I die Baby. Go on  Diet : Lot of holiday weight you see :P 

We meet a lot of different people in our lives some stay, some leave us mid way. At time we blame this on situations and at times we blame our self. Life is hard agree, no one said it was going to be easy but all we can do to make our stay easy is being our self, being true to what you are and what we believe in. It’s not that when someone tells you to change something in you they mean it in a wrong way. Some people just want the best for you. But remember there is a difference between changing something in you that will help you in the long run and changing yourself all together. Forgetting where your roots are and where you belong is not a lifestyle you should follow At times we meet people that we Love to a great extend, extend that we could change everything in us just to be and act the way they want us to be.  After doing all of this what’s the use, the best thing you can do for anyone and everyone is being what you are. Doing this could leave you lonely for a while,

We all have things that we don’t use but we have had them with us forever, maybe we will never ever end up using them again but as soon as someone else wants  it all of a sudden that thing becomes useful to us, all of a sudden we try to behave like our whole world rotate around it. We all have a lot of problems in our life. We all end up chanting “ LIFE SUCKS ” mantra. Try asking the person who is in his/her death bed how he feels, he will tell you the beauty of life how he would want to live all over again. I agree today you have a problem but it won’t always be so, change is a part of life so live it love it. Aaj hai “ Kal Ho Na Ho” Every day our mother's cooks for us but the day when we are out and we can’t find anything good to eat is the only time that you feel that may be yah our moms are the greatest cook in the world and its time we start giving them credit for it but why wait till then there is no harm in appreciating people that try hard every day just to ma

We all hear about parents killing their child if she is a girl, aborting the baby after knowing their sex. Sadly day-by-day the number of abortions has increased. Having been myself  brought up by parents who are so in love with me even after me being a girl child makes  it hard  for me to understand how some parents can kill their own baby, killing someone who hasn't even seen the face of the world. They sure have to be heartless for doing something like this.  We all live in a globalized world. People have grown in every walk of life but still it’s not just uneducated parents but people who are well to do in their life takes such steps. I don’t understand how does  it matters to someone that there to be baby is a girl or a boy who ever it is it’s a gift of God, something that is the part of them. People say if “we have a boy he will take the family name forward and help them in their old age” such people really need  get there facts cleared and ask the parents of t

     Starts liking the sports she never liked:  Now not every girl is a sports fan and if a girl starts watching your favorite sport ( That is huge) then for sure she feels for you.     Wears your favorite color :   If a girl ends up asking you favorite color and often wears it, she is surly trying to impress you   As soon as she see’s you coming she starts putting her hair in place:  seeing you from a distance if the girl starts giving herself last minute touch up she is sure into you ;)     Is quite in front of your friends:  If a girls very talkative in front of you but when your around your friends she rarely talks means she  doesn't  want to give a wrong impression to your friends and wants to be in their good books. Teases you with every other girl:  the minute she sees you talking to another girl if she starts teasing you means she is waiting for you to explain why where you talking to the other g

The weirdest feeling has to be when you are in a roomful of people and you still feel lonely. Happens to me all the time but from past few days the feeling is just getting stronger. Not that I don't know the people around me, I know them way to well that they don't interest me any more. Its said the more you see the better you understand but when you are surrounded by self centered brats who want you to only do is praise them, life gets hard then. Everybody around us wants us to behave in a particular manner, to act as they please, weird thing is rarely anyone wants you to be yourself, people say you are  a coward you can't even stand for yourself and when you finally learn  to stand for yourself the same set of people have a problem. All of a sudden they will all be like you are rude, you are self centered. Phew crazy world- a place where people can't even act as they please. But always remember life is way to short to live on other people's terms, set your o

Today I saw you and I skipped a beat,  you made my life a living treat . You made me fall in love with you all over again, you made me realize that life is not a game. It's you who taught me how to LOVE, it's you who taught me how to live. People say what's between us is wrong but I know that time will make our story strong.  PS I LOVE YOU

We all end up making a lot of decisions in our lives; few of them go terribly wrong. For all those things that haven’t worked out and left us shattered doesn't mean that it is the end of the world. We all make mistakes, sometimes we choice the wrong path, sometimes we choice the wrong people but that doesn't mean you’re a failure or you did something wrong it just means that thing wasn't supposed to be in your life. Looking back in life I have trusted a lot of people who have left be hanging, people who couldn't stand by me when I really needed them. Such things have left me thinking that it’s me who does not have ability to judge people , I don’t know what is right and what is wrong. After all such irrelevant thoughts when I actually get my act together I realize that during this course of time I have also made a lot of right decisions, I have happened to choice the best people in the world to be a part of my life and even though I can’t make all the right dec

Passion the word itself  has so much fire ,  a sense of power and enthusiasm in it . In our daily routine there are so many times that we lie back and say “dude I m bored” frankly speaking I do it like all the time :P  and seeing this I realize the reason for this is the lack of passion in us. Passion to do something new,  to learn something,  to be a part of something that makes us as well as others happy. These days every one wants a big house, a huge bank balance and perfect family and why not there is nothing wrong in wanting such things definitely not but why do we want all this at the cost of killing our dreams, why don’t we do things that we are passionate about. Life is too small so why live on someone else’s terms, make your own terms and if you think what you are passionate about something but it cannot be a career choice for you it’s okay I   am sure you can still remove time from your so called “busy schedule” for things that you really like. So come on people go out t

“Adjust” this is one word that ever Indian relates to. When a kid is born in an Indian family one thing the parents will for sure teach the kid is "beta adjust kar lo" When my parents told me this I never knew that this word would become a part of my FOREVER.... Be it as a kid when we where taught things which didn't make sense (ps: the sun rises in the east and set in the west..duh the sun never sets but things were different when we where kid's) Be it the hot summer afternoon's when going to school in that much heat was an achievement, each day when we have to breathe all kinds of unhealthy gases that cars release, day’s where for a single ticket you have to stand for hour's in huge Que ,day's where you are nothing but surprised when the local  train's are on time ... All these years each day we have all done one thing daily and that is ADJUST..people in India adjust with everything be it when people with influence get their work done faster in a

At a recent event  I just got lucky to be surrounded by the world’s most handsome as well as toughest men’s. Oh Yes definitely lucky me ;-) this event was The International Federation of Body Building where the world's strongest men came together to fight for a single title. It definitely was a honor to work for them more over the event gave me the lesson of my life.  During the course of the event the only way I interacted with these body builders was through  smile :-)   my day would start by smiling good morning to them and the way the smiled back it felt like I have known them for ages may be ever more than that. Looking at them smile back at me was like magic it was like a different side they had that rarely people knew. At one hand there is the whole world standing at staring at them like they ain't human cause of there humongous body and here they are smiling at me like angels :). As every guest has to leave there came the time I had to bid these guys good bye an

We live in a world today where  9 out of 10 people are madly in love, people who believe that they have found there soul mate,someone that they want to spend their entire life and have a future with.... I personally am surrounded by friends who have been in relationship for 5-6 year but looking at them I haven’t ever had a feeling that their relationship has grown stronger with time it just feels as if the magic has disappeared, we all have  friends that don’t even know what they want to be in future but are  brave enough to decide the names of the future children and what they want them to become,are these all people kidding them self ?are you kidding yourself??? Do you really think that you are in love..My mother always says love happens once rest is just life.  So do you really think that you have found love??? Or is this what people call infatuation... I ain't here to judge anyone’s love life you'll would know better where your life is going nor am I here to say th

 All I want to do today is to be someone, someone who doesn't crib over their busy schedule, someone who is happy to start a new day a new beginning, someone who feels blessed enough to get up and see the smiling faces of their family, someone who feels that their wardrobe is a magical land, let's be someone who surprises the whole family by making them breakfast just to see the smile on their faces like they are in the best restaurant in the world. Let’s be someone who is generous enough to smile just to make people believe that today will be a better day. Let’s be someone who doesn't mind being in a train full of people just cause they know that at least they ain't lonely.Let’s be someone who doesn't mind being criticised  just  cause they know that today they will learn something new.Let’s be someone who is willing enough to share love and knowledge just cause they know that life is too short to hide things :)  TODAY LET'S  BE SOMETHING TODAY LET&#

Every day I come across people who want to know if I am single or not. Few people try ask about it in a straight forward way "hey are you single?”,  few people try the indirectly way  (ps : hate this )  " so where is your boyfriend?"  and I go like duh I don't have a boy friend . Be it direct or indirect the moment I say I am single everyone has the same reaction “DON'T LIE ” , but people hello why will I lie? What's there to hide? If  I have one I have one, if I don’t have one then I don’t  it’s as simple as that, but we humans don’t like simple things do we ? Complicated things excite us.We love judging others, we try to figure out other people’s love life even though our own love life sucks. Then number of times when I say I am single a lot of people start judging me like “oh may be she wants to keep her relationship a secret” or “oh may be she is relationship phobic” or may be “someone broke her heart and she has lost faith in love”  ,but why